This week in EMS Online we talked about the Cycle of Failure. Unfaithful spouses were asked to list what things 'squeeze' them that make them unsatisfied. Some of the spouses provided a laundry list of things they don't like about their betrayed spouses, i.e. they're selfish, work obsessed, etc. Was this the purpose of this exercise? Or is there a more productive list or description of 'squeezes' we should be looking at?