Samuel provides a strategy for those trying to manage triggers and intrusive thoughts after disclosure.
We want to support you during this Coronavirus pandemic. First, we must acknowledge how difficult it is, and how much courage it requires, to continue infidelity recovery work during this crisis. While there are many helpful practices you can do at home during this time of social distancing, the truth is that we all need community and connection with people who get what we’re going through. We have that community here for you.
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Samuel shares important key principles to repair the lens a betrayed spouse sees their unfaithful partner through.
Samuel discusses emotional vs physical affairs and the impact emotional affairs have on betrayed spouses.
Samuel discusses how to navigate trauma in light of recent world events.
Samuel discusses anger, the betrayed spouse, and what the unfaithful can do to mitigate that anger.
What do the words 'I'm sorry' really mean? They are used so frequently that they don't seem to carry much weight. If you are like me, however, they are the first thing we mutter when we realize we have made a mistake or done something wrong. When it comes to the pain of infidelity, the words 'I'm sorry' have to feel downright insulting to a betrayed spouse. As they should, because it isn't enough. The truth of the matter is, it will never be enough to undo the damage that is caused by breaking marital vows and by the deception that comes with being unfaithful.
'I'm sorry' is something we say when we bump into someone accidently or something we offer when we are running late. Most of the time, just uttering 'I'm sorry' comes across as selfish, because it has more to do with ourselves than...
Samuel gives direction to both the betrayed and unfaithful on how to deal with isolation after disclosure.
Samuel helps the betrayed spouse understand if an unfaithful spouse is genuinely sorry or just sorry they got caught.
Samuel discusses a classic problem couples in crisis face when trying to heal from infidelity or addiction.
