Ending an affair requires more than a decision. If there is another person involved, the bridge to that relationship absolutely needs to be burned.
I remember when my oldest child began speaking. The words she learned provided a new form of entertainment. When she wanted us to open something for her she'd say "door" because she'd heard us say "open the door." Door became her word for open. However there was...
Samuel provides insight into how to find greater freedom in recovery.
Samuel shares a story form his own journey about healing his heart.
Suicide seemed the only alternative for ending my affair. Not wanting to cause any further pain eliminated honesty as an alternative. Mostly, I didn't want to be seen as "the cheater". Snared by conflicting feelings, I wouldn't decide. Despair hung over me like dark storm clouds. I could see no way out. Failed attempts at ending the affair ignited feelings of hopelessness and left me feeling...
Samuel answers a viewers question on what to do when the betrayed refuses to get help.
Samuel discusses several points on why infidelity has a 'spill over' affect.
I want you. I want you now, yesterday, and forever. Above all, I want you to want me. No matter where I am or what I am doing, I am not safe from your spell. At any moment, the image of your face smiling at me, of your voice telling me you care, or of your hand in mine, may suddenly fill my consciousness, rudely pushing out all else.
The expression "thinking of you" fails to convey either the quality or quantity of this unwilled mental activity. "Obsessed" comes closer but leaves out the aching. A child is obsessed with Christmas. But it’s a happy prepossession full of excitement, curiosity, and expectation. This prepossession is an emotional roller coaster that carries me from the peak of ecstasy to the depths of despair and back again.
Everything reminds me of you. I try to read, but four times on a single page some word begins the lightning chain of associations that summons my mind away from my work, and I must struggle to return my...
Samuel discusses a vital principle in recovery that the unfaithful spouse needs for proper perspective into restoration.
Samuel discusses the topic of unforgiveness from the unfaithful spouse's perspective.
Samuel shares insight into how to protect and care for your own heart after the disclosure of infidelity.
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