Functioning and participating in everyday life is one of the toughest things for a betrayed spouse to do after discovery of infidelity. The future can seem completely uncertain, reminders and triggers are off the chart, anger continuously stalks them and we feel as if we don't have what it takes to make it. Often times we can also feel alone and painfully desperate, searching for not only answers, but peace of mind. Today I've provided three videos for you to preview from three separate areas of our website: private Harboring Hope Q...
Samuel discusses a controversial topic: the midlife crisis and infidelity.
Samuel discusses the struggle the betrayed spouse feels internally when rushed to heal or 'get over it.'
Samuel answers a common question in healing from infidelity.
Samuel shares one of the biggest mistakes an unfaithful spouse can make in recovery.
Samuel discusses ways to break free form old destructive patters in marriage.
Samuel shares personal tools he would use in recovery.
Samuel shares a significant pitfall couples make in attempting to heal from infidelity.
Samuel shares a particular type of affair called the 'double betrayal' and how to recover from it.
Defining forgiveness is difficult at best, especially when it comes to infidelity. I find it more useful to begin by defining what forgiveness is NOT. In recovery, we encourage both individuals and couples to focus on good strong progress, not perfection, even in the area of forgiveness. Each of our courses provide a proven pathway to freeing yourself from bitterness and resentment.
While reconciliation may be based on another’s contrition, sorrow or repentance, forgiveness is a gift you give yourself which sets you free from the hurtful actions of others. It has little to do with the other person because it’s an internal matter. It is an act that releases that person’s hold on you for the wrongs committed against you. To choose not to forgive leaves you forever a victim. Forgiveness takes the...
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