Q&A Did My Spouse Affair Down?
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Question
My husband had a sexual affair with a woman with one aspect of her appearance being the thing he’s found most unattractive in women. He looked embarrassed when he talked about her appearance. Like he was embarrassed he didn’t pick a more attractive affair partner. Would this be what you describe as affairing down?
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