Q&A Is Our Marriage Doomed Because My Mate Is Unwilling to Make Amends?

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We are almost 2 1/2 year out from D-Day and I am still not sure I know the whole story. We have been to EMS weekend and we are in a Married for Life group that meets faithfully every week. Every month we do the appreciation, amends and wounds question. I have been writing the same 3 wounds since EMS weekend. My husband acknowledges my wounds; however, he hasn't done anything in his power to make amends to me for the wounds. Does this mean he is not capable of ever healing me or my wounds? Is our marriage doomed because he is unwilling to make amends? I am feeling very doubtful that he still is not capable of helping me heal or helping our marriage heal.



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