Life Before, During, & After Infidelity: An Interview with a Betrayed Male Spouse

Samuel interviews Rob about his life before, during, and after his wife's infidelity.

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You give me Hope

Thank you so very much for sharing your story. Not very often do we hear from a betrayed male spouse. It was helpful to hear about the thing you think many males go through. My heart goes out to you. My husband has said many times that he feels like a fool for staying because so many people would say that he should have left. I think this video would be very helpful for him to hear as we are pretty early on in our recovery. Again, thank you. You give me hope.


This interview resonated with me on so many levels. Thank you so much for sharing. I am a betrayed male about 1 month after D-day. I can completely relate to the feelings of isolation and shame. We are taking steps to heal but I know it is a long road ahead.

Thank you for sharing your

Thank you for sharing your story. Can you tell me some of the good books you read? My husband isnt open to getting help yet, but he might pick up a book.

Very special insights, especially from a Male Betrayed spouse

Thank you Sam for getting Rob to do this briefing session. I cannot even explain how tremendously this particular one has helped me, given that I was hearing it from the point of view from a betrayed male (which is very rare in terms on content available online). Thank you and God bless both you and Rob.

Re Life After Infidelity

Hearing another man's experience was very good. Thank you Samuel. I was destroyed. For me Affair Recovery came to late. I did the Harboring Hope course. My wife was already gone. I tried for a long time to change things. After thirty nine years of marriage and enduring thirty unfaithful acts by my wife, I am pressing on, alone, ten years later, divorced. No one understood what I went through at the time and I have not found anyone that I can connect with today.

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