Q&A Should We Set Boundaries with Masturbation in Marriage?

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My husband is in a complicated affair with a coworker in which he remains in limerence with ambivalence. I am doing my best to be patient and rely on God to guide me. He states that they haven't been physical in a while, but I know he is masturbating. We are sleeping apart in our house. We are haven't been sexual in a couple of months since discovery. Should I be happy that he is hopefully not being physical with her and is instead masturbating? Or, is masturbating a major problem at this time also?



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