I am a unfaithful husband. We have initiated our recovery process through EMS Online, and made disclosures. Now my mate is trying to process the information and grieve. I convey my mate the good things that I appreciate about her, the remorse I feel, validate her feelings, and acknowledge the truth in her outbursts. These acts of mine may be mellowing her down. I am confused if this is making her not to vent out her anger, hurt and humiliations and my acts amount to manipulations.