Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair?

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It's been 3 months since D day. Initially I got lies and denial then the truth and information began to dribble in and most of what I know about the affair is from old text I've seen. My wife says she can't remember any more about this 6 month affair that's just barely over. I'm stuck on healing because I can't seem to believe the whole story. She seems remorseful but her patience with my unending questions is beginning to wear thin. I'm lost as to how to let go without knowing the whole story of their relationship and feel that we may never recover if I don't let go of this. Should I expect more information? Her behavior and actions indicate she wants our marriage to work but I want to understand so I can trust she's with me for the right reasons and not because her AP ran for the hills when I discovered their relationship.



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