My husband snuck in with the affair partner while I was away with our 3 small children. It was 24 years ago. When he confessed back then he told me he had sex with the affair partner twice at his office. I asked him a million times if it truly happened only twice and if the affair partner was ever in my home, which we had just built. He lied. 4 months ago he confessed that his affair was really 4 months long, he had sex with the affair partner in our master bedroom , Jacuzzi, on the living room couch, and multiple places around our very small town. I'm in agony living here. The Jacuzzi has been torn out and the couch has been replaced. I can't get past pain. Do people get past this or should we move?