Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Mon, 10/23/2023 - 15:15

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I feel like my spouse is doing all the things we are learning in EMS Online and we are certainly closer and having a much more honest and loving relationship- but this ambivalence I feel is just overwhelming and I somewhat feel guilty. They seem to be all in and wanting the marriage, but after everything I just still cant be more than ambivalent. Is this normal? Does it go away? Any suggestions for moving through this?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas