Q&A Can You Help Me Make Sense of My Wife's Desire for Erotica?

I’m trying to make sense of my wife’s need for erotic literature and audio erotica. Along with her emotional and sexual affairs, she was also listening to a lot of erotic audio books, and audio erotica, which is listening to people having sex, without actually watching it. She sees it as, “harmless” and helping her, “tap into her femininity”. I don’t know what to think about any of it, but it feels like another piece of a sex addition to me. She has currently compromised, and is only listening to, “romantic comedies” or “fantasy’s” that still include sexual content.