Q&A Do I Share This, or Suck it Up?

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I am the betrayed. It has been 6 months since DDay. We have had full disclosure, I hope. My wife is working very hard to fix herself. I had a terrible thought/trigger the other day that I have not discussed with her. Here it is. I thought of how a long time ago my wife became unable to have an orgasm. It didn't seem right to me at the time because it was never a problem for her before. But now I know what the problem was. Her lack of orgasm started about the time she became physical with the AP. Do you see how bad that thought hurts me? Here is what I struggle with. Do I stay sincere and authentic and tell her about this or do I protect her healing process by just sucking it up on my own?



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