Q&A Is God Not Opening the Right Door or is My Mate Not Walking Through?

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My husband abandoned me and our four children. He walked out one day, out of the blue, moving in with his affair partner, who was a coworker. It was beyond a shock, when I pulled up our phone records that night. He did not respond to any communication for over a week. I didn't allow him to come back into our home for another month after d-day. One of the two caveats was that I couldn't be with him if he continues working at the same place...he reacted, at the time, like he understood. I waited six months before addressing this issue again... only to hear him say he wasn't leaving. His mindset has been changing over the last 9 months...slowly, but surely. I found out now, 20 months later, he continued using his workplace to have contact, emotional and physical, for six months after moving back home....devastating. I've waited, for 21 months for him to change jobs, and this still hasn't happened. He claims he's looking hard to change jobs now ....but "God hasn't opened the right door". Is this God....or my husband???



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