Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth?

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It has been 7 months since D-Day. I’m the wayward spouse and I have not handled the situation well. I trickle truthed for 2 months. I finally got it at the 2 month mark and started to focus on improving myself by becoming safe. We did a weekend retreat, tons of counseling, got involved in the church, and spent lots of time with the Pastor. Finally I convinced my mate to do EMS Online. It seems to have helped me figure out who I am and where I want to be. The issue I'm having is she doesn't believe I have told her everything. I have volunteered to a polygraph several times. The latest issue was she contacted AP and she down played the affair. Now my wife thinks I'm lying about everything. I don't know how to help her see I am being honest. I would do anything at this point to give her a shred of hope that I am telling the truth. She means the world to me and all I want is to see her find some happiness again. How can I prove myself to her?



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