I have been feeling really low… Recently we had a conversation and my husband is still saying to me - "if our intimate life had been better and he did not feel 'disconnected' this never would have happened". I cannot believe that after all this time he is still holding on to that statement - even after EMS Weekend, and everything we have learned. Of course he doesn't think he needs any help or therapy. Isn't it wrong for him to blame his infidelity on that? I acknowledge that our relationship was not perfect and admit to my part in everything that was wrong and am ready to work on it. But I don't think his statement is okay. It feels like its not fair. How do I continue if this is his mindset? How do we continue our marriage successfully?