Q&A How Do I Handle Him Working Long Distance with My Lack of Trust?

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Hi Rick!

My husband is going to be going away for work in 1.5 months for up to 9 months. This is causing increased intrusive thoughts and concern about whether he will keep his promises. In the past he repetitively broke his marriage vows when away for work. We have completed the online course and are doing the Married for life course now. I find trust is still not there as while trying to work on our marriage and find healing he reached out to his AP stating it was for his closure. Unfortunately, he did it behind my back and left me feeling betrayed again. I am struggling to find a way to deal with these feelings and how to deal with him being away for that long. Both of us are wanting this marriage to continue and to be better than ever. What can you suggest to help us deal with this?



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