Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say?

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I have been dealing with something I had told my spouse before her affair. I had told her that if I find out that if she had any kind of relationship with a brand partner at the pyramid scheme she was with that I would divorce her. Sadly to say she did anyways. So here we are in recovery and I am feeling that she does not respect my wishes or don’t believe I will back up what I say. How do I know she believes what I say this time? What am I supposed to tell myself? I feel as my boundaries mean nothing to her.



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