I am having a problem with a specific behavior my husband exhibits. He tends to eye a person that brings him somewhere in his mind. When he finds that person, he forgets I am around. He is captivated. I know he is a flirt but before his affair partner he was able to pull me back in, now the women that captivated him is the image of the affair partner. He is unable to pull me back in if they are in his eyesight. How does he change his behavior if he can not see himself doing it?