We are three months into this process, since EMS Weekend, and I'm the betrayed spouse. This past month has been the worst by far. There have been a few incidences that are causing me to question whether or not this is going to work. They are not infidelity but they are character issues, lack of thoughtfulness, and a broken agreement that was put in place to keep us safe. There is lots of good in spite of these incidences but I am questioning whether it is expected to have this type turmoil so soon. I am not feeling as hopeful as I want to.