Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do?

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We’ve been married 38 years, I completed Harboring Hope, and we’re in EMS Online. He is doing the workbook, but he seems to be more focused on getting the “right answer” and making sure his answers sounds good for the call, than using the material to grow and heal. While on the call, he was re-reading his answers and making changes until it was his turn. At one point, I even asked if he was listening to the other people. I’m really working on trying not to micro manage his recovery. Should I bring this to his attention? What do you suggest I do in this situation?



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