Don't you feel that your online groups should be more balanced mix? (ex: same sex female/male betrayer) Especially so where one sex is the only injured, and to have perhaps a male speaker in such a capacity as yourself, I think this would help men in my situation come forward and be willing to participate more, I get the program is the same for hurt and it doesn't matter on sex. I feel it's hypocritical to say, but guys do look at things differently...