Rick, my wife and I were at EMS in June. We are not working together on the curriculum and this is due to the fact we are separated. I am enrolled in HFH and we are in the 4th week. We went to a marriage counselor and the counselor became Tracy's therapist under the proviso that if Tracy agreed the counselor would then become the advocate for our marriage. I am feeling as if things are unwinding. What can I do?