Q&A What Do I Do about My Mean Unfaithful Spouse?

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My husband confessed to cheating 1 month ago. He also confessed to possibly having a 10 year old child. I already have an 8 year old stepchild. I moved out with my 2 month old immediately. I drafted up a "separation agreement" for both of us to type out our expectations during the time of separation. Because I wrote that I needed space and time,my husband decided he should cut off contact with me completely. I removed $2000 from our savings to help me care for myself and child, and he got mad and took away my access to the bank account. The emotional immaturity is killing me and makes me want to file for divorce now. How could the unfaithful spouse be so mean? It's been nearly two weeks and he won't answer my calls or messages. I still have questions about his multiple affairs that I have asked but he won't answer, what do I do now?



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