Q&A When Is It Safe to End a Separation and Come Back Together?

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As of one week ago my husband broke off his affair, that lasted about 2 months. We want to reconcile and have been talking and spending time together. We have been separated for 9 weeks. How do I know when it is ok to move in together again or how much time is too much together during the healing process. We are both signed up for hope for healing, and harboring hope and are scheduled to attend the EMS weekend in May. He feels we should be together as much as possible to rebuild.



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