The affair partner contacted me to expose the affair. This is another person from the one I suspected, which I only have text messages. So to me there are more than 1 affair now. My spouse has denied until the exposure. He wants to work on reconciliation. He will show up at counseling or mediation sessions. When I had triggers, he will be upset. He also gets sad and upset when I do not listen to him in our family matters. He wants "business as usual" but I do not want the same old guy anymore.