Hi, Rick I had a month and half affair with a ex girlfriend from high school about 8 months ago. We started talking through Facebook. Trickle truth happened back in December. So we are about 3.5 months out from dday. The ap told my wife everything 8 months ago through texting her, sending her screenshots of conversations and calling my wife. My question is my wife is concerned that the truth didn't come from me, but when discovery is happening that it's more of a confirmation on my part, is it harder to heal? We are both very committed to this process and are waiting for EMSO to start.