Samuel shares practical ways a spouse can work on their own recovery, even if they are unsure about the future of the marriage.
Samuel discusses the struggle of an unfaithful spouse who continues to go back and forth between their affair partner and their spouse.
Samuel discusses the need to prioritize your own healing in recovery.
Samuel answers one of the most common questions by betrayed spouses: "When is enough, enough?"
Samuel shares a common struggle couples have in recovery and understanding why spouses really cheat.
Samuel discusses the effect of going through the motions in recovery for both spouses.
Samuel addresses one of the chief myths of recovering from infidelity.
Last week while speaking to a group of past participants, I casually brought up the topic of relapse. Talk about sucking all the air out of the room. Even I was surprised by the reactivity. Threats flew around the room like bats coming out at sunset. "If you do it again I'm out of here," quipped one betrayed spouse. "Why did you have to go stirring things up?" asked an unfaithful spouse. "We were doing just fine until you brought that up." There was heavy breathing, cursing, and overall displeasure. In an instant, I went from saint to goat. But why does merely bringing up the idea of relapse do such a number on us emotionally?
We fall out of love long before we fall out with our mate.
How does that statement make you feel? Do you agree or disagree?
Falling out of love isn’t about losing a feeling for another person; it’s about how I treat another person....
Samuel answers a viewers question regarding the unfaithful spouse and the direction of recovery.
Samuel shares pertinent information on what to do and not to do in the pit of infidelity.
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