Additional Resources Below you will find many of the books Rick and the other therapists recommend on a regular basis. We recommend leaders read these and also refer them to their groups as additional relevant education. Note: As an Amazon Associate, Affair Recovery earns from qualifying purchases. Betrayal Keep Walking: 40 Days to Hope and Freedom After Betrayal - A Devotional written by our own Survivors' Blogger, Lynn Cherry Worthy of Her Trust by Stephen Arterburn and Jason B. Martinkus Not Just Friends by Shirley P. Glass Healing Your Marriage When Trust is Broken by Cindy Beall Rebuilding a Marriage Better than New by Cindy Beall Private Lies by Frank Pittman When Godly People do Ungodly Things by Beth Moore After the Affair by Janis A. Spring Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity by Gary and Mona Shriver Rescued: A woman's guide to surviving and thriving after sexual betrayal by Shelley S. Martinkus Should I Stay or go?: How Controlled Separation (CS) Can Save Your Marriage by Lee Raffel Marriage Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud and John Townsend (used in Married for Life following EMSO/EMSW courses) Love Must be Tough by James Dobson Intimacy Ignited by Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus Restoring the Pleasure by Penner & Penner Crucial Conversations by Patterson Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski Rekindling Desire by Barry and Emily McCarthy Shame Daring Greatly by Brene Brown Shame Interrupted by Edward T. Welch Forgiving How Can I Forgive You by Janis A. Spring Forgive for Good by Frederic Luskin Stuck: How to Overcome Your Anger and Reclaim Your Life by Remy Diederich The Gift of Forgiveness by Charles Stanley Lust and Sexual Addiction Every Man's Battle by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker Out of the Shadows by Patrick J. Carnes Ph.D. Surfing for God by Michael John Cusick Addiction and Grace: Love and Spirituality in the Healing of Addictions by Gerald G. May Understanding and Loving a Person with Sexual Addiction by Stephen Arterburn, Jason B. Martinkus, and Shelley S. Martinkus Co-Dependency One-Way Relationships by Alfred Ells When People Are Big and God is Small by Edward T. Welch Trauma The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van derk Kolk M.D. Healing Trauma by Peter A. Levine Trauma and Memory by Peter A. Levine Ph.D. and Bessel A. van der Kolk M.D. Spiritual Growth Strong Women, Soft Hearts by Paula Rinehart The Road Less Traveled by M. Scott Peck The People of the Lie by M. Scott Peck Abba's Child: The Cry of the Heart for Intimate Belonging by Brennan Manning Wild at Heart by John Eldredge From Wild Man to Wise Man: Reflections on Male Spirituality by Richard Rohr and Joseph Martos. Parenting Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive by Daniel J. Siegel Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child The Heart of Parenting by Ph.D. John Gottman (Author), Joan Declaire (Author), Daniel Goleman (Foreword) The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind by Daniel J. Siegel Uncategorized Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David D. Burns M.D. The Grief Recovery Handbook by John W. James & Russell Friedman Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well by Douglas Stone King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine by Robert Moore and Doug Gillette Internal Family Systems Therapy, Second Edition by Richard Schwartz and Martha Sweezy.