Q&A How Can I Change My Perception of My Mate?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Fri, 03/23/2018 - 10:48

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I am a betrayed wife. We are 11 months post D-Day. We are committed to each other and recovery, and are beginning EMSO this week. We love each other and have more good days than bad. But I have a problem I have not shared with my unfaithful husband. Every time I look at him, I “see” his affair and affair partner. Sometimes it feels as if even looking at him triggers me.

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas