Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair?

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Question

When d day first happened, I thought this affair had been going on for a year. Three days later, I find out it has been 4 years. I can't get past this. I think about the amount of time he spent on this and I am overwhelmed. Why did I find one year 'acceptable' and 4 years is not?

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