Q&A Will it Take 10 Years to Heal?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Fri, 12/16/2016 - 15:34

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Question: 

Rick, I just heard you say online that it takes double the amount of time the affair lasted to be healed if you were betrayed; were you exaggerating to make a point?! That means it will take 10 years to heal. We've heard testimonies of people being healed after affairs even longer than ours, but didn't hear that it took that long. I assumed the time frame of 18-24 months (generally speaking) as more the case. Hearing what you said makes us both so hopeless. Can you elaborate?

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That's a relief to hear! He

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That's a relief to hear! He was unfaithful for 20
Years...that would be 40 years to heal and I would be 100 years old before I healed...or maybe dead.

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