When disclosure happens, the life you thought you had seemingly crumbles in your hands. It's like the floor caves underneath you and you're in a free fall. The chaos, the fear and the dread, it can seem as though you're stuck in a vortex of chaos and agony looking for any sort of relief. You feel like you can't tell anyone, and those that you do tell, can't remain objective.
"If it were me, I'd divorce him." they say . . . "I'd be done with her if my wife did that to me" they chant . . .
The fact is, everyone says what they would do if infidelity transpired, until it actually happens to them.
What do you do when it happens to you?...
Samuel continues his discussion on how to create safety in recovery and address denial.
Samuel begins a new series on safety in recovery for both betrayed and unfaithful spouses.
Samuel answers a viewer's question surrounding the future of those who are trying to heal from infidelity.
Samuel shares pivotal insight into recovery work and uncertainty.
Samuel discusses the journey of the betrayed spouse in a unique outlook and approach.
Samuel gets personal about the journey of the unfaithful.
When Hope Crumbles: A 2 Part Series by Cindy Beall:
This week, we’d like to share part two of our guest post series from our friend and fellow pioneer in caring for couples in crisis, Cindy Beall1. As you’ll remember, Cindy is a friend, writer, speaker and mentor of women who are on their own journey of healing from the effects of infidelity. Her first book Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken, was released in 2011 and has been a wonderful source of encouragement and hope to many. We are privileged to have Cindy as the keynote speaker for our first annual Hope Rising One-Day Conference for betrayed spouse's coming up in October.
Samuel shares key points on how to gain momentum early on in recovery.
My husband and I have maneuvered the quagmire of recovery for well over three years now. We’ve had some deep lows and amazing highs but overall a slow and steady healing and maturing of our marriage and relationship. During this time I’ve often wondered how two people could have been in the same stale, boring marriage yet made such wildly different decisions. I know others have pondered the same question. There are times when the “why” of a partner’s affair can about drive the betrayed bonkers.
When I stumbled upon the...
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