Samuel answers a viewers question on what to do when the betrayed refuses to get help.
Samuel discusses several points on why infidelity has a 'spill over' affect.
I want you. I want you now, yesterday, and forever. Above all, I want you to want me. No matter where I am or what I am doing, I am not safe from your spell. At any moment, the image of your face smiling at me, of your voice telling me you care, or of your hand in mine, may suddenly fill my consciousness, rudely pushing out all else.
The expression "thinking of you" fails to convey either the quality or quantity of this unwilled mental activity. "Obsessed" comes closer but leaves out the aching. A child is obsessed with Christmas. But it’s a happy prepossession full of excitement, curiosity, and expectation. This prepossession is an emotional roller coaster that carries me from the peak of ecstasy to the depths of despair and back again.
Everything reminds me of you. I try to read, but four times on a single page some word begins the lightning chain of associations that summons my mind away from my work, and I must struggle to return my...
Samuel discusses a vital principle in recovery that the unfaithful spouse needs for proper perspective into restoration.
Samuel discusses the topic of unforgiveness from the unfaithful spouse's perspective.
Samuel shares insight into how to protect and care for your own heart after the disclosure of infidelity.
Samuel explains why many betrayed spouses feel stuck later in recovery, even after expert help.
Below you will find a video from one of our mentor couples that is included in our Free 7 Day Bootcamp and the full length version is included with EMS Online for couples. . They share their difficult journey through infidelity including sex addiction and a child born from an affair.
Samuel continues his current series in safety, while addressing un-managed anger in recovery.
In the beginning, my relationship with Stephanie was anything but monotonous. I first saw her on a church retreat she attended with her boyfriend of three years. From the first moment I saw her I knew he wasn't right for her. The fact that he went to bed early Saturday evening, leaving me with the opportunity to impress her with my skills as a singing troubadour, only confirmed my belief. Alas, as the weekend drew to a close I failed to get her number, but not to be discouraged I called her good friend and acquired the necessary information.
It was 8:17PM, only a few hours after I last had seen her when I made my fortuitous call.
"How would you like to get together next weekend?" I asked....
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