I strongly relate to your videos and I am able to relate them to my situation. However, my husband doesn't receive the message we'll because all he did was use porn compulsively and behind my back. How do I get him to understand that his behavior was a betrayal and that recovery should be taken just as seriously as if he had an affair.

Thank-you for this blog post. I am almost to the 2 year mark and as a betrayed, I can really relate to this message. I was beginning to feel like something was really wrong. We had made so much progress up to this point. Now why all of a sudden did I feel stuck again? Why did I feel so sad again? I came to this site specifically because of my current feelings. I saw this video and it helped me so much. Thank-you, Samuel.