Samuel discusses the struggle for couples to make decisions too early in recovery work.
Samuel shares pivotal insight on handling new information, or attempting to ask questions of your unfaithful spouse.
How does infidelity impact those who get divorced (i.e. divorce recovery) and what are their unique challenges? This week I'd like to focus on the specific barriers the betrayed spouse faces and the baggage they may actually carry into future relationships.
Moving on after divorce, especially when infidelity is involved, is just not easy nor without new hurt.
After 26 years of marriage and three beautiful children, Martha discovered her husband was cheating on her with girls closer to her children's ages than her own. Her first response was to kick him out. There was little or no remorse on his part. He felt she should just get over it. Eventually she invited him back, prematurely she now admits, for...
Samuel discusses drip feeding new information to your mate.
Samuel continues his discussion on how to create safety in recovery and address pride.
When disclosure happens, the life you thought you had seemingly crumbles in your hands. It's like the floor caves underneath you and you're in a free fall. The chaos, the fear and the dread, it can seem as though you're stuck in a vortex of chaos and agony looking for any sort of relief. You feel like you can't tell anyone, and those that you do tell, can't remain objective.
"If it were me, I'd divorce him." they say . . . "I'd be done with her if my wife did that to me" they chant . . .
The fact is, everyone says what they would do if infidelity transpired, until it actually happens to them.
What do you do when it happens to you?...
Samuel continues his discussion on how to create safety in recovery and address denial.
Samuel begins a new series on safety in recovery for both betrayed and unfaithful spouses.
Samuel answers a viewer's question surrounding the future of those who are trying to heal from infidelity.
Samuel shares pivotal insight into recovery work and uncertainty.
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