Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage?

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My husband had a 4 month affair with someone 15 years younger than him who also works directly under him. He admitted to me that he wouldn’t have stopped it had I not found out, but he loves me, our family, and never intended to leave me. He continued to see his affair partner off and on for months after discovery until I asked him for a separation and made him move out. He then signed himself up for Hope for Healing, and after 4 weeks in the class seems to have made some huge discoveries about himself and is doing some of the things to make me feel safe with him again. He’s been trying to find a new job, even before I found out about the affair, but nothing has panned out. I see a lot of positive changes in him, but I’m having a hard time letting my guard down since he still works with her. He promoted someone whom his affair partner would have to report to in order to limit her contact with him, but she still sits 20 feet from his office and he still has to sit in meetings with her. Would we even be able to restore the trust in our marriage if they continue to work so closely together?

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