Q&A How Do We Show Commitment without Making False Vows or Promises?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Wed, 02/28/2018 - 09:44

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I am the betrayed spouse. We are nearing the 1 year mark since D-Day. We are reconciling and continue to work on our recovery, individually and together. I read that re-commitment is a necessary step in the upcoming months, yet I cannot wrap my mind around promising or being promised anything in marriage ever again. What are examples of alternate ways to show commitment without making vows or false promises?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas