Samuel discusses the effect of going through the motions in recovery for both spouses.
Samuel addresses one of the chief myths of recovering from infidelity.
Last week while speaking to a group of past participants, I casually brought up the topic of relapse. Talk about sucking all the air out of the room. Even I was surprised by the reactivity. Threats flew around the room like bats coming out at sunset. "If you do it again I'm out of here," quipped one betrayed spouse. "Why did you have to go stirring things up?" asked an unfaithful spouse. "We were doing just fine until you brought that up." There was heavy breathing, cursing, and overall displeasure. In an instant, I went from saint to goat. But why does merely bringing up the idea of relapse do such a number on us emotionally?
We fall out of love long before we fall out with our mate.
How does that statement make you feel? Do you agree or disagree?
Falling out of love isn’t about losing a feeling for another person; it’s about how I treat another person....
Samuel answers a viewers question regarding the unfaithful spouse and the direction of recovery.
Samuel shares pertinent information on what to do and not to do in the pit of infidelity.
This weekend, 20 couples from all over the country will attend our in-person, EMS Weekend Intensive. I'd like to invite you to watch to Laverne and Lishcia's encouraging story of their own EMS Weekend and what it did for them.
As you can imagine, the uncertainty surrounding these 20 couples and their future together is probably at an all-time high. Yet, amidst the chaos and uncertainty, they've decided to give it a shot and see if there is any future together. Some would call it a "Hail Mary." Others, may call it a "last ditch effort." Call it whatever you'd like, but the fact is, it's a chance at new life through expert help from those who've walked through infidelity before personally, offering infidelity-specific solutions to heal the trauma of infidelity. With over 70 plus years of collective experience treating infidelity, you won't find a safer place in the United States for couples and individuals to heal.
Any given weekend we'll have participants where...
Samuel shares a few ways we sabotage our own healing.
Samuel discusses controlling tendencies in recovery for the unfaithful spouse.
Samuel answers a viewer's question about how to handle anniversaries in recovery both for the marriage and recovery.
Samuel discusses how to allow the pain to work in both the unfaithful and betrayed spouse's recovery.
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