Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Spouse do all the Hard Work?
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Question
My husband does nothing to proactively save our marriage. He's more than willing to do what I ask from the online AR courses to being totally honest. He says all the "right" things and I know he's sorry and wants to make amends. But why isn't he willing to be proactive about our recovery? I want him to browse the AR web site, talk to others, or whatever is necessary to show that he will do the hard work necessary to recover from his infidelity. I just want him to DO SOMETHING! Why should I, the hurt spouse, do all the hard work?
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