My parents are getting up in age and driving for a long time is hard on my dad. We live 2 ½ hours away. Because of this, when my parents would visit before D-Day they would stay for several days or even a full week. But since D-day, my betrayed partner has stated that because my mom knew of my infidelity a week before he did, as well as my dad stating that he just needs to get over it, he doesn't want to be around when my parents come to visit. Because of my infidelity, its also out of the question for me to visit them for several days instead. Even with being 100% transparent. I don't know what to do in this situation. If my parents come and stay a night, and my betrayed has no where to go, I feel like I'm being selfish for wanting to see my parents. I would like them to talk it out and reconcile, but I worry my betrayed will never consider them safe again. He is very smart - and after studying childhood & betrayal trauma, has determined they fall into emotionally immature and narcissistic tendencies that they will never understand. Your guidance with this is much appreciated.