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As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 6 years 5 months ago

Samuel shares insight into why the choice to blame is so enticing for unfaithful spouses.

, 6 years 5 months ago

Samuel share a pivotal point of healing for both himself and Samantha during one of the most difficult times in their recovery.

, 6 years 5 months ago

Samuel shares practical ways a spouse can work on their own recovery, even if they are unsure about the future of the marriage.

, 6 years 5 months ago

Samuel discusses the struggle of an unfaithful spouse who continues to go back and forth between their affair partner and their spouse.

, 6 years 5 months ago

Samuel discusses the need to prioritize your own healing in recovery.

, 6 years 5 months ago

Samuel answers one of the most common questions by betrayed spouses: "When is enough, enough?"

, 6 years 5 months ago

Samuel shares a common struggle couples have in recovery and understanding why spouses really cheat.

, 6 years 6 months ago

Samuel discusses the effect of going through the motions in recovery for both spouses.

, 6 years 6 months ago

Samuel addresses one of the chief myths of recovering from infidelity.

, 6 years 6 months ago

Samuel answers a viewers question regarding the unfaithful spouse and the direction of recovery.

, 6 years 6 months ago

Samuel shares pertinent information on what to do and not to do in the pit of infidelity.

, 6 years 6 months ago

Samuel shares a few ways we sabotage our own healing.

, 6 years 6 months ago

Samuel discusses controlling tendencies in recovery for the unfaithful spouse.

, 6 years 6 months ago

Samuel answers a viewer's question about how to handle anniversaries in recovery both for the marriage and recovery.

, 6 years 7 months ago

Samuel discusses how to allow the pain to work in both the unfaithful and betrayed spouse's recovery.

, 6 years 7 months ago

Samuel shares insight on how the unfaithful spouse can help the betrayed spouse heal faster.

, 6 years 7 months ago

Samuel answers a question regarding how the betrayed spouse should respond when the unfaithful refuses to end their affair.

, 6 years 7 months ago

Samuel shares empowering responses for betrayed spouses who feel stuck in their situation.

, 6 years 7 months ago

Samuel answers a pivotal question for betrayed spouses and offers insight into the mind of the unfaithful spouse.

, 6 years 7 months ago

A man’s self-image is important. The world teaches us that men are supposed to be strong, courageous, wise, and unemotional.

I was a “man”.... 

 

I was a husband, a father, a provider. I was “tough”...

When the world hit me I hit back. 

When I was in pain I rubbed dirt in the wound and got back on the field. I didn't have any need for emotions (except anger). I was in control. I was respected and wise.

Or at least I thought I was.

Then D-day hit. I cried for days. I lost 20 lbs in a month, threw up more times than I can remember. I was...

, 6 years 7 months ago

Today Samuel shares stories about having an inner circle around you to save you from you.

, 6 years 7 months ago

Samuel shares about the day Samantha informed him she wanted a separation and what it did for their recovery.

, 6 years 7 months ago

Samuel shares practical insight into what really goes on at the EMS Weekend. A post from: https://www.affairrecovery.com/our-blog

, 6 years 8 months ago

Samuel discusses the common struggles the unfaithful spouse has with during their affair.

, 6 years 8 months ago

Samuel shares insight into how to manage the pain we experience due to infidelity.

, 6 years 8 months ago

Samuel shares insight into a dark moment early on in recovery and how to make it through similar dark moments in the recovery process.

, 6 years 8 months ago

I grew up in a very broken family. My parents divorced when I was around two years old and I never really knew my biological father. My mother was an alcoholic who drank and smoked her life away. We were very poor, I remember a time when the only thing we had in the cupboard was half of a jar of peanut butter. My mother was married before and I have 3 half-brothers from 2 different fathers. I never had a father figure in my life. None of the fathers stuck around. In the toughest times we boys, were passed around to relatives that could take care of us. After high school, I entered the Army. After my...

, 6 years 8 months ago

Samuel answers a question from a viewer on what if my spouse doesn't respond to boundaries.

, 6 years 8 months ago

Samuel discusses methods of self love and self care in an effort to defeat codependency.

, 6 years 8 months ago

Samuel shares practical insight into how to handle and resist triggers in recovery.

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