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As past participants, we want our walks through infidelity to bring hope, inspiration, and courage to your own journey.
, 8 years 2 months ago

Samuel shares insight on how both he and Samantha's life were changed by infidelity.

, 8 years 2 months ago

How do you know what's right or wrong in recovery after an affair? Samuel shares in this video, how to find a compass in recovery to make sure both spouses are doing what is right.

, 8 years 3 months ago

In this video, Samuel shares thoughts on how to face your situation however dark it is, to find new life and healing after an affair.

, 8 years 3 months ago

Samuel discusses more of his own personal story and trying to run from the dysfunction and how it affected Samantha as they worked to recover from his affair and infidelity in their marriage.

, 8 years 3 months ago

For years leading up to D-day my husband and I were leading separate lives under the same roof. We weren’t angry with each other. We weren’t making threats to divorce or having screaming arguments. We had family supper together every night. We went on family vacations. We talked about politics, family, the latest national news, friends, and a host of other topics. But we never talked about our relationship. We were disconnected emotionally. We lived a life of pretend normal that was externally the model marriage but internally suffocating. Intimacy was gone, not just in the bedroom, in every aspect of our relationship. Looking...

, 8 years 3 months ago

Today Samuel discusses a critical step in recovery after an affair...saving yourself.

, 8 years 3 months ago

Samuel shares an important phrase in recovery during this video that discusses when someone typically will end an affair.

, 8 years 3 months ago

Today Samuel shares in his video, four key components to recovery which are essential to long term healing after an affair.

, 8 years 3 months ago

Samuel continues sharing with his newest vlog on understanding the mindset of an unfaithful spouse who is stuck between their affair partner and their spouse.

, 8 years 3 months ago

Samuel shares a new vlog on understanding the mindset of an unfaithful spouse who is stuck between their affair partner and their spouse.

, 8 years 3 months ago

Today, Samuel shares in his video insights as to why repaired marriages can be so life giving.

, 8 years 3 months ago

Marriage vows. Promises you make at your wedding ceremony as you commit your life to your mate. You can write your own, heartfelt vows or go the traditional route. On a day full of optimism and hope the marriage vows cement two lives into one. My wedding day was years in the making. I was finally marrying the man I had fallen in love with in high school. We had already been through what I considered at that time the worse that life could throw at us. It had taken us eleven years to reach the marriage altar and promise our lives to each other. We were on the home stretch! Yes, my vows had meaning for me,...

, 8 years 3 months ago

Today Samuel poses the question in his video, "Is it worth it to pursue recovery after an affair even if it looks like it's over?"

, 8 years 3 months ago

Samuel discusses the topic of rushing through recovery after an affair and how we may find ourselves missing some important steps.

, 8 years 4 months ago

Samuel discusses a critical mistake many couples make adding to the frustration of recovery and restoration following infidelity.

, 8 years 4 months ago

Samuel shares a jarring story of financial ruin while going through recovery from infidelity and the tools he and Samantha developed.

, 8 years 4 months ago

Samuel discusses in this video why it's a good idea to do recovery work, even if you're unsure about whether you or your spouse wants to save the marriage after affairs and infidelity.

, 8 years 4 months ago

Samuel offers hope in this video from his own story on how to make it through a difficult day in recovery from an affair and infidelity.

, 8 years 4 months ago

One year ago my husband disclosed his sex addiction to me and our lives changed.  In the beginning, I would have told you our lives changed in a bad way but now I see it differently.  In reality, my husband coming clean about his own addiction has catapulted me into the healing I so desperately had been hoping and praying for.

Before “D-day,” we were living like “roommates.” 

We have only been married for 8 years but a lot has happened in that period of time.  I slowly shut down, knowing there was “something” else going on but not knowing what that “something” was.  The more I shut down, the less I was able to...

, 8 years 4 months ago

When my husband’s affairs were discovered just over two years ago I had all the predictable emotions; anger, confusion, agony, and so much more. Eleven days later when we decided to work on our marriage I still had those emotions but now I had fear:

What if I let him come back home and he cheated again? What if I couldn’t “get over it”? What if I was wasting my time and energy on a failed attempt at reconciliation?

On the one hand, I felt as if it was necessary for me to try and save our marriage for many reasons:

We had almost 25 years together. He deserved a second chance. I wanted to...
, 8 years 4 months ago

Samuel discusses a difficult and common topic in recovery from infidelity during this video: Why the betrayed ask questions and want details.

, 8 years 4 months ago

In today's video, Samuel discusses resistance to recovery work after an affair and how to address the raw trauma of infidelity.

, 8 years 4 months ago

Samuel continues part 2 of his video series today on bitterness and discusses techniques on diffusing and overcoming it.

, 8 years 4 months ago

Two years since d-day. I can’t believe it! When my husband’s affairs were discovered I didn’t think I would survive that first day. The minutes were agonizing. Time slowed to a crawl. I was reduced to pure, raw emotion. There was no existence without pain. I wished I would die. I knew I would die. My heart was shattered and it would kill me.

Over the next few days I was in a fog. I took one day off work but that was all I could afford. When I wasn’t crying I would sit and stare. I worked by rote. Zombie. Barely functioning. My emotions were all over the place. I was furious, full of hatred,...

, 8 years 4 months ago

Samuel continues his video series today on bitterness and discusses techniques on diffusing and overcoming it.

, 8 years 4 months ago

I did it. Over the past few weeks I have taken the time to go into my prayer closet and grieve.  I haven’t done it every day but I have done it at least 8 times over the course of two weeks and each time I leave feeling like a burden has been lifted.  I have learned over time that it is true when people say grief is a process.  It looks different for everybody.  I am also beginning to realize that I have not fully grieved the loss of my mother and other emotional hurts from my past.

However, God has been with me during this entire process.  One day on the way to see my...

, 8 years 5 months ago

Samuel continues his discussion on bitterness in today's video sharing what it actually does to you.

, 8 years 5 months ago

Samuel begins a new video series on bitterness and it's effects on recovery from infidelity and affairs.

, 8 years 5 months ago

Samuel shares a recent story where he had to utilize a valuable recovery principle.

, 8 years 5 months ago

Samuel discusses how to restore honor in the marriage seeking restoration following infidelity and affairs in today's video.

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