Samuel tackles the question of from many viewers of will it always be this painful?
Samuel tackles the mindset of never being the same again after discovering infidelity.
Samuel discusses a struggle all spouses seem to fall into during recovery work.
Samuel answers viewers comments on why the unfaithful isn't aware of the consequence of their choices.
Samuel shares part two of why humility and honesty must be present in recovery.
Samuel shares part one of why humility and honesty must be present in recovery.
Samuel shares examples of some of the worst things to do in the recovery process.
Samuel shares why spouses absolutely need the right support to heal.
Frequently in marital conflict, it’s not the topic of our conversations that cause the problem; it’s the contempt or disrespect that’s communicated through stonewalling. When trying to survive infidelity, emotions run high, neither party feels cared for or valued by their partner and the chaos seems insurmountable.
After 35 years of helping couples in crisis due to infidelity, I have found that shutting each other down by refusing to communicate only makes things worse.
If you’re the one courageous enough to bring up the topic, begin by taking an honest look at yourself and how your approach to communicating with your mate has possibly lacked respect. Are you willing to admit that maybe how you’ve spoken to your mate hasn’t always been the most beneficial? If so, bring up the topic of communication by first asking if they’d be willing to have a conversation about...
Samuel discusses a sensitive pitfall for couples seeking recovery.
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