Infidelity Belief 2: Will It Always Be This Painful?

Samuel tackles the question of from many viewers of will it always be this painful?

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No conviction

My husband and I have been trying to reconcile after his infidelity and unable to achieve anything. He believes that mutuality in our effort is required, and so do I. However, he still justifies his betrayal and doesn’t believe that what he did was absolutely wrong. Because of that, i’m finding it really difficult to move forward. I forgive him, but I don’t believe I can reconcile with him.
Just looking to hear from anyone out there reading this who might understand. I know God is with me helping me to speak the truth to him with love, but it hurts so much when he doesn’t want to hear it.

hi there.....sorry for the delay

you would do best to get into an expert third party situation where someone like our staff can help him hear things he won't hear from you.  if you continue to try and be the one that gets through to him, he'll continue to resist my friend. the best thing you can do is get expert help asap.  I'm very sorry for your pain and frustration. 


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