As I wrote in my previous blog article, “Is He Worth It?” my husband is capable of both enormous deception and immense change. So the other day when he contributed to a trigger I could have sat and fumed about why I put up with his actions. But instead I did something that I’ve been doing for three years post D-day. I acted intentionally. After asking myself for the hundredth time why I put up with him I then answered myself for the hundredth time with my personal recovery mantra:
My husband is worth another chance.
My husband is capable of great change.
I’m stronger than I think, braver than I...
Samuel offers help for the unfaithful spouse on how to handle a conflict with their betrayed spouse.
Samuel offers perspective into handling and processing fear as an unfaithful or betrayed spouse.
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Samuel shares helpful insight for the betrayed spouse on dealing with anger throughout the course of infidelity and disclosure.
Samuel shares insight into why the unfaithful spouse is angry and how to process through it.
Samuel shares insight on one of the key approaches by the betrayed which prevents healing in his third part of the mini series.
Part 1: https://www.affairrecovery.com/survivors/samuel/blockages-healing-part-1 Part 2: https://www.affairrecovery.com/survivors/samuel/blockages-healing-part-2
Sex and intimacy are such big topics and it seems all couples struggle with one or both in some way. Couples that say they don’t struggle in either area are either the rare exception or more likely, they are not giving you the full story.
My wife and I always struggled with sex, me wanting it all the time, her not so much. She has always struggled with enjoying sex. She can never seem to relax enough to get any enjoyment. In fact, our sex struggle was one of the reasons for her affair. She thought that maybe she had just married the wrong guy and that maybe sex with someone else would be...
Samuel continues his mini-series on what mindsets prevent healing in recovery. Part 1: https://www.affairrecovery.com/survivors/samuel/blockages-healing-part-1
Samuel shares factors which prevent the betrayed spouse from trusting again.
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