Samuel shares part one of why humility and honesty must be present in recovery.
Samuel shares examples of some of the worst things to do in the recovery process.
Samuel shares why spouses absolutely need the right support to heal.
Samuel discusses a sensitive pitfall for couples seeking recovery.
Samuel tackles the pivotal question unfaithful spouses struggle with.
Samuel continues the discussion on the unfaithful spouse's journey of dealing with self rejection.
Samuel shares practical insight to help unfaithful spouses care for their traumatized mate.
Samuel discusses a controversial topic: the midlife crisis and infidelity.
Samuel discusses the struggle the betrayed spouse feels internally when rushed to heal or 'get over it.'
Samuel answers a common question in healing from infidelity.
Samuel shares one of the biggest mistakes an unfaithful spouse can make in recovery.
Samuel discusses ways to break free form old destructive patters in marriage.
Samuel shares personal tools he would use in recovery.
Samuel shares a significant pitfall couples make in attempting to heal from infidelity.
Samuel shares a particular type of affair called the 'double betrayal' and how to recover from it.
Samuel shares poignant information regarding why spouses both cheat and relapse.
A special "Thank You" from Samuel.
Samuel addresses the desire of betrayed spouses to sometimes see their spouse suffer for their choices.
Samuel shares insight into the observations and struggles of the unfaithful spouse.
Samuel shares one of the pivotal reasons spouses cheat.
Today Samuel discusses a major trap unfaithful spouses fall into after disclosure.
Today Samuel shares helpful insight into do's and don'ts for attempting to woo your spouse back.
Samuel shares key points on how to break free from longing for the past.
Samuel shares personal insight on how to find new strength in recovery.
Samuel discusses what we use to comfort us in our pain and shame, may not always be helpful.
Samuel discusses a major pitfall in recovery: letting pain be our guide.
Samuel discusses the in's and out's of recovery and personal stories of failure and healing.
Samuel lays out a recovery protocol for weariness in recovery from the effects from infidelity.
Samuel answers a pivotal question in recovery: Will all this pain ever go away?
Last May was our three-year anniversary post D-day and as I anticipated, it hardly caused a ripple in my emotions. I knew the day was nearing but we were in a good place and we breezed through it without drama, triggers, or setbacks to our recovery. I believed we were finally through the worst that my husband's betrayal could throw at us. We had made it through the fire and while scarred were at last in a better, stronger, safer place.
Then from out of nowhere and without warning, ambivalence hit me like a punch to the gut. It came as a shock this far into recovery. Ambivalence is normal and part of the...