How Can You Fix or Heal Your Relationship after Cheating? Get Active in Your Own Rescue Infidelity is life-changing, life-altering trauma for ourselves, our partners, and even our kids. We can feel “left for dead” immediately following disclosure, and it would seem almost no one truly knows how to support those of us in crisis due to infidelity or addiction. What’s vital is that we are there for ourselves. While it may seem like a hollow suggestion or a cheesy Hallmark card, it is key that we are able to understand the principle of caring for ourselves, despite the temptation to wallow in self-pity for days. Without an approach of personal healing and restoration, we struggle to see which way is up, and darkness appears to be our only comforting friend. The truth is, we can heal and we can rescue ourselves from the pit of despair and hopelessness. This chapter isn’t the best, or the rest of our lives, but we have the power to make choices to not only heal, but find new life again. We can and must forge ahead, despite that what we see ahead may seem like more pain. As the old adage goes, looks can be truly deceiving, and as we rise to the challenge of rescuing ourselves from the temptation to quit and give up, everyone around us will eventually benefit from this choice. Continue Your Healing With EMS Online! Registration Opens Soon. Our Emergency Marital Seminar Online, better known as EMSO, isn’t a one-size-fits-all program for couples. Over decades of experience exclusively in the field of infidelity, our methodology has been honed to better serve couples as they address the betrayal, reconnect as partners and restore their lives. "I would like to say thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your ministry and the materials you have provided as part of EMSO and Married for Life. We, all five couples that started EMSO, have just completed the Married for Life 52-week course. We are now deciding what to study next as a group, as we so value the relationship we have together as couples. With God, with your materials and with each other, we have saved our marriages." — B. Minnesota | EMSO participant, March 2021. Spots fill up quickly, so you won't want to wait to register for EMSO! To learn when registration opens back up, click the button below. Subscribe to Registration Notifications!