Help for the Unfaithful Spouse: Dealing with a Traumatized and Betrayed Spouse

Samuel shares practical insight to help unfaithful spouses care for their traumatized mate.

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Amazing as always.

Thank you again and again for your messages. They are so helpful and wonderful. I think each one either helps me to understand an aspect or helps me feel understood.

If I have to be in this space, I am so very lucky to have found AR. You bring worlds of hope.

so encouraging

thank you so much for the encouragement.  it's a tough road but you can get through it.  thank you for being here and watching. 

 

Amazing as always.

Thank you again and again for your messages. They are so helpful and wonderful. I think each one either helps me to understand an aspect or helps me feel understood.

If I have to be in this space, I am so very lucky to have found AR. You bring worlds of hope.

Thank you for this!

Thank you for this!

PTSD - very accurate

I have a history of sexual abuse. My husband used porn for much of our marriage. I discovered it about 2 years ago, and all of my "normal" life felt like it was over. The truth is that I never completely dealt with my own pain/shame of abuse, and my world exploded. I found help for myself, my husband is doing his recovery work, both of us are in personal and occasional marriage counseling. The road has been so hard, but what we have as a result is a better marriage. How? The grace of God, good help (including AR), and two people trying to be sure we continually let God lead us through the change. And yes, EMDR helps me work through the emotional/logical brain issues of abuse. Thank you Samuel and Rick!

so glad to hear that and glad you're here

michelled, so glad to hear the good news.   It takes work for sure and I'm thrilled you're doing well and pushing forward.  thanks for watching and posting.  

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